Do you ever find yourself getting annoyed when someone whips out a cell phone in front of you in the grocery store line and chats the entire time he's checking out? Do you get tired of being ignored in favor of another person's cell phone? Don't become that person.
One of the most revered inventions of the last century, the cell phone, is also one of the most controversial. There’s no question that everyone needs one.
However, the way many people use them has gotten out of control. Remember that the cell phone is not the problem; it’s the user’s lack of respect for others and bad manners. Rather than come across as one of those people, follow a few simple rules of cell phone etiquette.
We've all been in public areas where someone is chatting away on his or her cell phone, ignoring everything else. In fact, some of us have been the person doing the chatting.
You may forget that everyone around you can hear every single word you say. Not only can what you say be misconstrued, a steady stream of one-sided chatter will likely be annoying to everyone around you.
Places where you should limit your cell phone use:
- Restaurants: Put your phone on vibrate to prevent creating unnecessary noise if your cell phone rings. Only make outgoing calls if necessary and keep them brief. When people call you, let them know that you are eating, and unless it’s an emergency, tell them you’ll call back later. Keep your voice as low as possible.
- Movies, Theaters, and Plays: Turn your phone off before you enter the venue. If you are concerned about your children who are home with the babysitter, you may have your phone on vibrate, but make sure it doesn’t make a sound when someone calls. Don’t answer it in the theater. Step out into the lobby and call the person back.
- Work: If you have a private office, it’s probably fine to leave your cell phone on. However, if you are a cubicle dweller, do your neighbor a favor and put it on vibrate. Resist the urge to conduct private business in your cubicle. The people around you don’t need to know everything you do after hours.
- Churches, Synagogues, and Other Places of Worship: Turn your phone off or leave it in the car. You and everyone around you should be able to worship in peace.
- Flying: Before your plane takes off, turn your phone completely off. Most airlines don’t allow cell phone use while flying because it may be a safety issue. There is some concern that electronic gadgets, including cell phones, may interfere with navigation equipment.
- Bus, Train, and Other Public Transportation: Turn your phone off or have it on vibrate when you take public transportation. Limit your calls to emergencies. Once again, it is rude to chatter on a phone in public.
- In the Checkout Line: If you are standing in the checkout line, talking on a cell phone is rude to everyone around you—from the other customers in line to the cashier. You can wait a few minutes to talk on the phone. Don’t initiate a call while standing in line. If the phone rings and you feel that you must answer it, let the person know you’ll call right back and hang up.
When you’re hanging out with friends and family, don’t be rude and chat with someone else on your cell phone. Be both physically and mentally present for the people you care about. If your phone rings, let the person know you’ll call back later, when you are alone. Doing otherwise gives the person you’re with the impression that he or she isn’t important to you.
Avoid text messaging while you are engaged in an activity or meal with someone else. Texting in front of others is the equivalent of whispering behind someone’s back. Even though it’s a typed message, it’s just as bad as chatting with someone who isn’t there.