Can Feng Shui Help Me Plan My Wedding?

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Is it possible to plan a feng shui wedding? The answer is yes, but it's a somewhat complicated process to choose the date based on feng shui principles. There are, however, many feng shui aspects which can be incorporated into the big day to encourage the greatest possible luck for the happy couple's future. 

To choose the most auspicious wedding date, you'll need some basic birth information about your fiance, in order to determine how it matches with your own.

 

Choosing the Wedding Date with Feng Shui

To find the best date and time, a feng shui practitioner or Chinese astrologer will need the engaged couple's dates of birth and the potential schedule for the upcoming wedding. The process consists of matching your data (zodiac sign and feng shui element) with the most favorable data of specific days and hours. You can find a qualified feng shui practitioner to make the best day selection for you, or you can try to do it yourself. 

Be advised, however, that experts study this topic for many years in order to master it, so don't be discouraged if you're feeling a little overwhelmed. There is a lot of information to consider when planning a wedding based on the principles of feng shui. 

Fortunately, there are a few other options to consider that may provide additional insights into your energy and your future spouse's energy, including feng shui astrology, also known as Nine Star Ki.

Using Nine Star Ki Astrology to Choose a Wedding Date

Nine Star Ki is based on the same basic principles as most other branches of astrology. The energy of days and hours is identified by the movement of specific planets.

When it comes to defining best days, feng shui astrology will help you understand your own energy, and then find the most compatible energy for it.

Your own personal energy includes the quality of your energy based on your date of birth information. There are different birth feng shui elements that determine personality characteristics, specific abilities and health tendencies that are all revealed by feng shui astrology insights.

Once you've got the date nailed down, you'll still have a lot of other things to plan to make your wedding as auspicious as possible. 

Using Feng Shui to Plan Wedding Details

There are many different ways to invite positive energy into your wedding day, according to feng shui principles

First, the venue is one of the most important aspects of the wedding. Choose a location that has a lot of windows which allow light to enter. In feng shui, a wedding full of light leads to future happiness

And although most Western cultures call for the bride to wear white on her wedding day, Eastern philosophies take a different view. White clothing is associated with death and funerals in Chinese tradition, and as such is not considered lucky for a wedding. Consider wearing a gold, pink or even red gown to draw the most luck to your wedding ceremony. 

Another Western custom calls for the bride to have something borrowed on her person when she gets married.

Ideally, she'll borrow this something from someone in a stable and happy marriage, which will bring positive energy, according to feng shui.