After you move, and your kids have taken a tour of their home and feel comfortable in their new surroundings, the next step is to help them settle into their new neighborhood. While kids are adaptable and will eventually make new friends, the following tips will help make the transition easier:
Locate kids who live on your street and in your neighborhood
Ask neighbors on either side of you if there are children who live on the street or in the neighborhood.
You can also peek into yards to see if there are any signs that kids live in that house, looking for swing sets, bikes and other toys.
Visit a local park or play area
Neighborhood parks are a great place to meet other kids and parents. Children often spend hours in the park, which allows your child time to meet other kids and to spend time outside. It's also a great place to meet other parents and find good adult friends.
If your neighborhood doesn't have a park, look for school yards that are open after hours and on weekends or local soccer fields or baseball parks or other sports centers where families meet and mingle.
Find your local community center
Most neighborhoods have a community center or swimming pool or local fitness center. Community centers are a great place to meet other families. Check out kid-friendly activities, events and weekend parties. Some centers also have daycare facilities which will give your kids a chance to play with other kids while you do something fun for yourself.
Host a kid's party
Invite neighborhood children to your home for an afternoon party. If you've moved during the school year, also invite kids from school or from the playground. Keep it simple, invite parents to come so you can also meet new people and accompany your child around the neighborhood to deliver the party invites.
Again, it's a great way for you and your child to get to know the area.
Join a local recreation center or a community club. Most activity centers have classes for kids, family swim times and other recreational programs. Join with your child so he or she feels comfortable. Speak to the staff and ask what other opportunities exist in your neighborhood. Staff are a great resource.
Find out what's happening in your neighborhood
Look for neighborhood flyers or bulletin boards that announce events and local activities. Also look for local newspapers that will list stuff to do and things that are family friendly. Check online, too. If you can't find any local information, check with your librarian who can provide some resources.
Join the library
The library is a fantastic place to meet other parents and children. Again, staff can provide great information on what's going on in the neighborhood and can point you towards family-friendly activities. Get a library card then spend a few hours in the children's section, checking out the books and letting your child interact with others.
Visit local children's stores
If you have neighborhood stores that cater to children, whether they specialize in kids' clothing, toys, or books, often the staff can also provide information on things that are going on in your neighborhood.
Stores often have bulletin boards with postings on events and activities. Bookstores are a great place to meet other parents and to find out about readings and activities that your child can attend.
Sometimes all you need to do is to get outside. Spend time in your front yard with your child or go for a bike ride, a walk or just hang out on the front porch. The more time you spend outside, the more likely you are to be discovered by neighbors and local kids.