8 Herbs That Symbolize Love and Romance

Herbs and other plants have a centuries-long history of symbolizing love and devotion. In ancient Athens, people wove mint and marigolds into bridal garlands and wreaths, and in classical Rome, brides carried wheat for fertility and rosemary to ensure the groom's fertility. In medieval times, European brides carried pungent herbs such as garlic and chives to keep spirits from disrupting their happiness. The pinnacle of romantic use of herbs may have come during Victorian times, when roses, lavender, pansies, and marjoram were carefully combined with one another and with other herbs to create formulas for romantic success and contentment.

Here are 8 modern herbs you can use to communicate your love and romantic intentions.

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    Basil

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    Strangely, basil was originally associated with hatred for the Greeks and later the Romans. For the Greeks, it was said that basil "exists only to drive men insane." Later, though, basil became a symbol of love in Italy, and it has retained that symbolic meaning ever since. In the folklore of Moldavia, a young man who accepts basil from a young woman is destined to fall in love with her.

    Basil, with its spicy scent, is a very easy herb to grow, and is available in many different varieties.

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    Calendula

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    Early Christians often brought these flowers to adorn statues of the Virgin Mary, which may be the origin of its use in love charms. In India, calendula is one of the most sacred of all flowers, symbolizing thankfulness, excellence, and serenity.

    According to the modern language of herbs, calendula means JOY. What a lovely thing to say to your beloved! Add calendula to your teas of course, but how about a romantic bath by candlelight? For your youngest valentines, a sweet calendula soap is a gentle and loving gesture.

    Also known as pot marigold, calendula is useful in the garden to repel pests. Herbal healers have found it useful to refresh and soothe the eyes.

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    Thyme

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    Thyme has a long history during which it has symbolized many things. The word "thyme" is derived from the Greek word "thymus," meaning "courage." The Greeks used the symbol of thyme to represent elegant style, and by the Middle Ages, it was a common symbol of chivalry.

    According to the modern language of herbs, thyme brings with it the meaning of AFFECTION—perfect for either young love or deep friendship. What better way to express your devotion to someone than to include a sprig of thyme in their valentine?

    Another easy herb to grow, thyme is also an excellent companion herb for tomatoes and is one of the best herbs for shady locations.

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    Patchouli

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    The heady scent of patchouli is not surprisingly included in a list of romance herbs. According to the modern language of herbs, Patchouli means PASSION. To use patchouli to it's fullest extent, tuck some dried into small sleep pillows or sachets. The rich, lusty scent, will entice your love to feel romantic.

    Native to southeast Asia, patchouli has a long history as an essential oil and folk remedy for skin treatment. In aromatherapy, it is regarded as a substance that both relaxes and stimulates.

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    Yarrow

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    Yarrow is one of the oldest of all medicinal plants. Medieval Europeans used yarrow to summon demons or to exorcize them, and the herb soon became associated with the powers of protection.

    In the modern language of herbs, Yarrow means EVERLASTING LOVE. What better way to show how you feel, then to include Yarrow in your herbal Valentine's Day blend?

    Yarrow has a naturally spicy flavor, so use a light hand, and include it in your teas or baths. In the garden, yarrow serves the paradoxical function of repelling deer while attracting beneficial insects.

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    Lavender

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    The history of lavender goes back at least 2500 years. Native to Mediterranean regions, lavender has been used in cooking and as an herbalistic cure since biblical times.

    In the modern language of love, Lavender means DEVOTION and UNDYING LOVE. It is no surprise that lavender has always been considered the herb of love since it's delicious and romantic scent is adored by almost everyone. An increasingly popular modern tradition is to use dried lavender petals as a wedding confetti.

    Use lavender in a romantic bath by candlelight, make a sachet and place it in the dryer with your bed sheets, to infuse them with ​a wonderful scent. Enjoy!

    Lavender is an easy herb to grow, lending an herb garden both visual beauty and delightful scent.

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    Oregano

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    Although we think of oregano primarily as a cooking herb, the ancient Greeks believed that it was the herb of Aphrodite, goddess of love, who is said to have created it as the herb of joy for her garden. During Elizabethan times, oregano was used to create good luck and good health, and in magical spells to foster happiness and health.

    Oregano, with its luscious green leaves, grows with such fertile energy that it is no surprise that it is included in a list of modern love language herbs. Oregano signifies JOY and HAPPINESS. Include this spicy scented herb in any tea mix or recipe where you want to send this love message to your beloved.

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    Fennel

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    The first historical mention of fennel dates back to the Roman author Pliny, who believed that snakes rubbed against the plant to improve their eyesight after shedding their skin. Fennel seed was eaten by Roman gladiators to give them courage for battle, and fennel also makes an appearance in Shakespearean drama—it was one of Ophelia's flowers in the play "Hamlet." Through history, fennel has been used for a variety of healing purposes, including as an elixir to suppress appetite and lose weight.

    With its soft, feathery, delicate growth habit, fennel seems perfect for a list of modern love herbs. In the language of herbs, this sweet, heady-scented herb means FLATTERY. Include its tall, shimmery fronds, in a bouquet of herbs and flowers to present to your loved one. Add fennel to your Valentine's Day meal, sprinkle it on your salad or dessert dishes. Fennel will offer up all the romance without saying a word. Enjoy!

    In herbal healing, fennel makes an excellent skin cream and can be used to soothe and refresh the eyes.

Using Herbs For Romance

Herbs have a language all their own. Here is a list of some common herbs and their romantic meanings.