14 Ways Cats Show Love

There's no doubt that cats love us as much as we love them. People who haven't been blessed with furry feline love have a difficult time believing this, though, because kitties show affection very differently than people do. In fact, some cat behaviors that puzzle, aggravate or even offend people are a cat's way of expressing undying love. Here are 14 strange ways cats communicate their feelings. 

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    cat purring
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    Cats show love by purring. Her purrs can mean a variety of things, from delight to expressions of concern. The sound of kitty purrs ranges from soft and subtle to Mack-truck loud. When your cat purrs in your presence, you can be sure she’s expressing her love for you.   

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    Cat Rolling
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    When kitty throws himself on the ground at your feet and rolls around, consider this a loving greeting and a solicitation for attention. Presenting the tummy in this fashion places the cat in a vulnerable posture. So cats reserve the rolling around for people they love.

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    Man and his pet cat
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    When a cat cheek-rubs you, head-bumps your face, or pushes against you, he leaves his scented signature. These behaviors, termed bunting, are expressions of affection cats display to other cats, dogs, and their most favorite people.

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    Tabby cat scratching a chair
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    Along with the spraying, cat scratching leaves both scented and visual marks of ownership. Pay attention to where your cat scratches the most. The areas most important to kitty often are related to those places associated with the owner, like a favorite chair where you sit.

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    Nursing Kittens Kneading Mother Cat
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    Kneading behaviors, front paw treading on soft surfaces, hearken back to kittenhood. Kitten paws knead against the mother cat’s breasts to induce milk to be released. Adult cats continue the behavior when they’re feeling most relaxed, content and loved, and that’s often when they're being petted on the owner’s lap. Kneading is a distinct expression of adoration.

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    cat carrying toy
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    Cats are adorable, but they're still tiny carnivores. Mighty hunter cats that catch everything from toys to bugs, mice or frogs, often share the bounty with those they love. Kitties who present you with this bounty deserve praise. They wouldn’t bring these special gifts if they didn’t love you.

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    Girl with kitten
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    Kittens play out of pure enjoyment, and many never outgrow playtime. Some cats may actually control the interaction of petting by moving just out of reach, so you must go to them. Their most favorite playmate typically is a trusted, beloved companion.

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    Cat Sleeping

    cat sleeping in owner's lap
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    As sleep champs, felines typically sleep up to 16 hours a day. Because they are most vulnerable during sleep, the place your cat chooses to snooze must be in a secure and trusted location. There is no greater loving compliment than a cat picking your lap for a favorite sleep spot.

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  • 09 of 14
    Cat eyes close-up
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    A kitty’s eyes are proportionately huge. If human’s eyes were the same proportion, our eyes would be eight inches across! As such, cat eyes are important assets for survival, yet extremely vulnerable. Cats that place their faces and wide open eyes near a personal express great trust and love. A slow “eye blink” from across the room is considered a cat kiss.

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    Photo of Ragdoll Cat Casper
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    If you've ever petted a cat, you've probably encountered the “elevator butt” pose which invites you to pay particular attention to the base of the tail. Most cats seem to love being scratched there. Cats also use their tails to signal their love. When a cat approaches you with its tail held straight up, and the end slightly tipped over it's a sign of love. Kittens greet their mother with tails flagged high in respect and adult cats continue to treat their favorite humans like a...MORE beloved mom.

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    Kitten meowing
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    Cats rarely meow at other cats. Typically only kittens meow to their mother's but they grow out of the habit as adults. Your kitty uses these vocalizations specifically to interact with her people. Do you make a point to talk with those you dislike? Neither do cats! Even when kitty pesters you with lots of meows, she’s interacting with you out of love.

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    Cat licking its paw on the top of a couch
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    Cats spend an enormous amount of time self-grooming. They also groom each other, but shared grooming behaviors only happen between friendly cats. Kitties that groom their human by licking your skin or hair, or even nibbling or sucking on your clothing, indicates great affection. This spreads familiar scent and helps mark you as an important part of her family group.

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    Photo of Cat Standing on Bed
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    Cats show love with spraying. It's sad but true that if your cat has decided to baptize your bed or other belongings with urine, you should consider it a back-handed compliment. Cats use their own scent to calm themselves down. Kitties feeling upset over separation anxiety or other issues often target areas that smell the most like their beloved owners, such as the bed.

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    Back of the cat
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    No one likes a cat butt in their face. However, this is another “backhanded compliment” that cats offer to only their most trusted, beloved people. Because kitties identify each other by scent, butt-sniffing is like giving someone a very personal handshake. When your cat jumps on your lap and presents her tail in your face, she's just giving you an enthusiastic hello.