How to Mix and Match Throw Pillows Like a Pro

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Throw pillows are one of the easiest ways to inject style into your living room, family room, or bedroom. And since there are so many affordable, beautiful pillows out there, it seems a shame to play it safe with just two or three solid-colored pillows, or worse, the set that came with your couch.

The first thing to remember is... Your pillows don't have to match! In fact, you can achieve a more professional, stylish look if they don't. If this idea is out of your comfort zone (hey, we get it!), we have a foolproof formula below for mixing and matching fresh patterns and/or colors to achieve a coordinated, but not matchy-matchy look that will refresh your room fast. (It's easy, we promise!)

There are a lot of different ways to mix and match throw pillows, and it's true: sometimes it does take a practiced eye. Some rooms in which not a single pillow matches another in color, pattern or style can still look incredibly polished and modern. If you don't have the time or inclination to experiment or shop that much, the Rule of Three is the perfect formula to guide your choices and simplify the process.

Choose Three Colors

The first thing to do is choose a color story. It's best to use three different colors pulled from other sources in the room, such as the wall color, the rug, your bedding or the curtains. If you choose a variety of pillows in different patterns—but they at least share the same colors—the look will be cohesive.

A few examples of color combinations that always look great together:

  • Dark Blue + Deep Red + Pink
  • Deep Red + Orange + Deep Green
  • Magenta + Violet + Mustard Yellow
  • Dark Green + Gold + Magenta

Choose Three Patterns

You can also mix and match three different patterns, as long as each pattern incorporates at least one of the colors that are in the same family. It's often simpler to choose your "lead" pattern first, which is generally the largest pattern and the one that contains all three colors in your color story. Then, the secondary patterns you select can contain just one or two of the colors found in your lead pattern. You'll find it can be difficult to choose a lead pattern by working backwards using pillows you already have.

Here are a few pattern mixing ideas to try:

  • One floral + one geometric + one solid color
  • One buffalo check + one toile + one ticking stripe
  • One chevron + one dotted + one knit texture

Choose Three Pattern Sizes

It's important to think of the scale of your patterns when following the Rule of Three because you don't want your patterns to compete with each other. Instead, choose patterns in three different scales, allowing one pattern to dominate. 

Your lead pattern will most likely be the largest pattern of the bunch, followed by a medium-sized print such as a stripe or small houndstooth. The third pattern, then, should be the most subtle, such as a solid color in an interesting texture, a dotted swiss, or one with a faint tone-on-tone pattern such as a damask stripe.

Now that you know the Rule of Three, we should also say that all rules are made to be broken—especially in design! If you start mixing and matching your selection of stunning throw pillows following the formula outlined here only to find that four colors work best for you, or that you like two large patterns instead of only one, that's OK! The only thing that matters is that you like what you see when you walk into your space, so use this only as a jumping-off point from which to start. You'll see stylish results if you follow the formula; however, don't stop there if you enjoy the process! Experiment until you find the combination that suits you.

A Few More Tips

1. Odd numbers look modern: When arranging your throw pillows, keep in mind that for a modern look, odd numbers work best—think again of three, or five. And remember that a smaller number of larger pillows looks more fresh than a jumble of smaller ones, and in most design aesthetics, odd numbers always look more artful.

2. Even numbers look traditional: For a balanced look that features symmetry, especially on your bed or couch, an even number of similar pillows, like two or four, looks clean and orderly.

3. Fill matters: When shopping for throw pillows, consider the fill and how it will affect the appearance. A feather-and-down fill, for example, has more give and a softer squish (if you will). Foam and other synthetic fills are stiffer and generally much more affordable. These pillows will hold their shape better but don't look as luxe.

4. Mix textures, too: Pattern and color mixing is important, but texture should not be overlooked. Play with the juxtaposition of smooth and rough, soft and fuzzy. Think about faux fur, and velvet, linen, knit wools and tasseled accents. If you keep your color and pattern theme in play, you can get creative with touch and feel.