How Your Marriage Changes

The Impact of the Stages of Marriages

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In writing about how your marriage changes, we don't mean how marriage changed you or your spouse. We don't mean how you maybe changed your name. We don't mean your income tax status. We don't mean your legal status.

When we talk about how your marriage changes, we'reĀ referring to the predictable and normal stages of marriage and how they impact your relationship with your spouse. Writers and marriage experts have listed different names for the stages of marriage and even different numbers of the stages of marriage.

We list five stages of marriage.

The Five Stages of Marriage

What Can Change in Your Marriage

A few areas in your marriage where you may notice both positive and negative change through the years include:

  • Passion and Sexual Intimacy
  • Time Issues
  • Level of Communication
  • Date Nights
  • Responsibilities
  • Feeling of Connectedness
  • Amount of Laughter and Play
  • Unfulfilled Hopes, Dreams, and Expectations
  • Health
  • How You Perceive Commitment
  • Sense of Acceptance
  • Financial Situation and Goals
  • Respect For One Another
  • The Way You Deal With Conflict

What You Can Do

Bottom line, you can and should do what you know will be helpful for your unique marriage relationship, including:

  • Remember that challenging times in your marriage are usually temporary and that the love you have for one another won't necessarily fade during tough times.
  • Talk with each other. Don't ignore problems. Deal with them.
  • Work at keeping your marriage off the back burner and out of a rut.