Sign-up to receive notices from your school
Most schools provide a freshmen update to new students, letting you know about events and activities related to the start of term. Make sure you're on the list or check your school's web page regularly for updates.
Sign up for as many events as possible; even if you're shy, you'll find adapting a lot easier if you jump in with both feet!
Join online forums
There are some great online forums for first-year students specific to your school. Post questions, make connections and read other people's experience of moving away for the first time - it'll reassure you that you're not the only one.
Make sure you arrive in time for orientation
Orientation is the best way to meet new friends, both in your residence and campus-wide. From pub-crawls to sports events, there's usually something for everyone. Some schools will connect you with a senior and provide familiarity tours so you can get to know where resources are located.
Don't arrive too early
Homesickness usually hits when you have time to spare, so try to plan your move for a few days before orientation. This will give you time to settle in, tour the campus to find your classes, introduce yourself to others and to just hang out.
On the other hand, some people might want a longer period of time to themselves to settle in. You decide what's best.
Join clubs and sports teams
Before you move, check out the clubs and activities that your school offers. Clubs are a great way to get to know students from a diverse background and from different departments.
Make a list of the clubs you'd like to join, note their meeting times and create a schedule for your first few weeks.
Get together with friends
As you plan your move to school, make sure you leave lots of time to spend with friends. While you might think this time together will make it more difficult to leave, you'll find that your friends become your greatest support and cheerleaders. Maybe spend a day shopping for stuff you'll need or go through course descriptions discussing what classes to take.
Spend time in old haunts
Say goodbye to favorite spots even though you'll be back to visit now and again. Just take your time to savor the moment, but also to reflect on all the great new adventures you're going to have, the new haunts that you'll be calling your own and the new friends you're going to meet.
Stay in Touch
- Create your own blog or web site. If you don't already have a blog, create one. Post photos, write about your experience and ask friends to post comments. It's a great way to stay in touch with your past, but to also say "hello" to your future. And at the end of your first year, you can look back and reflect on the changes and celebrate your victories!
- Gather your contacts. Remember to not only collect contact information of friends and family members, but also teachers, coaches, guidance counselors, employers and neighbors. You never know when you'll need to get in touch, to ask for advice or a reference.
- Make a deal with your parents. Before you leave, talk to your parents about your communication plan. Parents may insist that you call home once a week (or more often) so make sure you let them know how often you'll call and what you might need from them in terms of emotional support. You might find that you want to speak with them every night for the first couple of weeks, then that might change to once or twice a week. Just ensure that whatever arrangement you make, your parents also feel comfortable with it. Also, discuss with your parents how you'll pay for the calls. Your dorm may only have a pay phone available; find out before you move as you might need to invest in a calling card.