Pregnancy, Your New Baby, and Your Cat

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    Pregnancy, Babies, and Your Cat

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    Pregnant Woman With Cat. photo © Getty / Buena Vista Images

    Pregnancy presents some challenges when you have a cat. But don't worry, none of them are even remotely insurmountable. You do not have to get rid of your cat. You just need a little planning and know-how. Cats and babies have coexisted peacefully for thousands of years.

    First, some common questions and myths. No, cats do not suck the air out of a baby; that is an old wives tale. Yes, it is theoretically possible for a cat to inadvertently suffocate a baby, although there are no reliable...MORE reports of that ever occurring, and it's easy enough to block your cat's access to the crib.

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    Prepare Your Cat to Accept Your New Baby

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    Cat Sniffing New Baby. photo © Getty / Victoria Penafiel

    Let's look now at how we can get your cat to accept your new baby with open paws. From your cat's point of view, a baby who shows up with no advance warning is a loud, threatening, and attention-stealing invader. It doesn't have to be this way. Babies and cats can be buddies. The key to getting a cat to accept a major jolt to her routine is to soften the blow and introduce the change gradually. In the case of a new baby, you want your cat to be as used to baby stuff as she can...MORE possibly be beforehand so that when your baby comes home, kitty is not totally shocked by this very interesting human life form.

    • Get your cat used to baby sounds and smells. Long before the big day, wear the baby lotions and powders that you will be using. Let your cat sniff you, and help her develop positive associations with the new scents by praising her and giving her a treat. 
    • Get a recording of a baby crying, possibly from a neighbor or relative who has a baby. You can also use your smartphone to record babies crying in a pediatrician's waiting room. Play the recording for your cat, starting with low volume and short length, and working up to full volume and duration. Again, use positive attention and treat rewards.
    • If at all possible, invite a friend or family member to bring their baby over for a short visit, followed by a few longer visits. During the visits, let your cat walk around. It's best to have ​the baby sitting on a lap. A baby seat or playpen might work well, also. Play with your cat as long as you don't bother or scare the baby.
    • If you're building or preparing a nursery, give kitty a chance to become used to the new setup one step at a time. Let her get her curiosity thoroughly out of the way. Remember to keep up your daily interactive play sessions. Make your cat feel like she's a part of all this, not an outsider.
    • Set up the crib long in advance of baby's homecoming. Make the crib uninviting (to a cat). Fill several soda cans with pennies and tape the openings of each can. Fill the crib with these soda cans. If this doesn't deter your cat, you can buy netting that fits over the crib.
    • You can also block access to baby's room by installing an interior screen door. This is actually quite effective.
    • Give your cat plenty of exposure to toys, mobiles, and other baby paraphernalia. You want all these things to have lost their novelty for her weeks before baby comes home.
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