If you follow feng shui tradition, then you know that the position of your bed is a common challenge. The bedroom is considered one of the most important rooms in the house. It is a place that should promote a harmonious flow of nourishing, vibrant, and sensual energy.
When it comes to your bedroom in feng shui, there are a few no-nos. Do not align the bed with the door, do not have a mirror face the bed, and do not place the bed under a window or near a bathroom door. This list goes on. With so many feng shui guidelines (and so few options for bed placement in a typical bedroom), it is easy to become overwhelmed, not to mention confused.
Do not let these challenges keep you up at night. There are solutions for every bedroom challenge, and you can prioritize your decisions based on the specific challenges your bedroom presents.
Door and Bed Alignment
Traditional Chinese feng shui school masters say that a bed aligned with the door resembles a coffin that is taken away feet-first. Understandably, this image is not appealing. It is symbolic of your energy flow. In feng shui, when your feet are in line with the door, it means that you are losing your energy at night, and your personal energy gets weaker. Doors serve as energy connectors between areas of the home, and energies are pulled from one area to another. If your bed is in line with the door, your energy will be constantly pulled at night.
Are you not sure if your bed is aligned with the door? The easiest way to check your bed alignment is to lie down in your bed and see if your feet are pointing at a door. This can be any door: the main bedroom door, an en-suite bathroom door, a balcony, or closet door. If your feet are pointing at a door, then you are in line with a door.
Remedies for Door and Bed Alignment
If your bed and a door are in alignment, then it is best to simply move the bed so that it is not in line with the door. If this is not possible, one solution is to block the flow of energy from the foot of the bed, using a tall, solid footboard. This is particularly helpful if your bed is in line with the main door to the bedroom.
If you do not have a tall footboard, you can place a piece of furniture between the bed and the door. An upholstered bench will work, or perhaps a small shelving unit with a solid back.
Other Bed Placement Challenges and Remedies
Solving the question of where to place your bed does not stop with the door. There are several other potential problems to avoid to ensure the most nourishing energy for the important time you spend in your bedroom.
Mirrors Facing the Bed
A mirror facing your bed—or more specifically, reflecting your body while you are in bed—depletes your energy while you sleep. Sleep is a time you should be recharging your energy, not losing it. The best solution is to move the mirror or change its angle so it does not reflect your body while you are in bed. Alternatively, you can cover the mirror with curtains or other décor at nighttime.
Beams, Ceiling Fan, or Chandelier Above the Bed
In general, avoid heavy items hanging over your bed. This creates heavy, oppressive energy that will find its way into your daily life. Reposition the bed or the fixture so the two are not in line with each other. If there is a ceiling beam overhead and you cannot move the bed, protect yourself from its heavy energy by adding a light fabric canopy over the bed.
Poison Arrows in the Bedroom
Sharp corners and edges on walls, artwork, furniture, and other décor items in a bedroom express sharp, attacking energy called sha chi. This is particularly problematic if the sharpness—symbolic of poison arrows—are directed at your body while you lie in bed. The solution for this challenge is to move the sharp object so it is no longer pointed at your bed or to soften the corners and edges with fabric, pillows, plants, or other soft objects.
Bed Under a Window
A window directly above your head, while you are in bed, saps you of energy you need to regenerate while you sleep. Move the bed away from the window, if possible, or protect yourself from the window by adding a tall, solid headboard, or heavy window treatments to cover the window.
Bed Under a Sloped Ceiling
Sleeping under a sloped ceiling applies constrictive pressure to your energy, potentially leading to health problems and feelings of low energy in your daily life. If possible, move your bed so the head is under the highest point of the ceiling (for freer energy movement), or at least position the bed so the headboard is not against the lowest part of the ceiling or sloped wall. Otherwise, you can paint the ceiling (and walls) to promote upward energy flow.
Bed With Access Only From One Side
A bed pushed up against a wall restricts the flow of energy to your bed. And if you share the bed with someone, access to only one side of the bed hinders communication and promotes an imbalance in the relationship. To correct this problem, pull the bed away from the wall so there is clear access on both sides. If your space is small, center the bed for equal access, no matter how small the space is.
Bed Close to the Bedroom Door
Positioning your bed close to the bedroom door or near the wall containing the door leaves your bed open to a rush of energy that can be too active for your sleep. If you cannot move the bed to a better location, create a barrier that separates your bed from the energy rushing in through the door.